6 Types of Guys You Should Avoid Dating

One of the happiest feelings in the world is being in a relationship. However, not all relationships are perfect. Although women usually have great instincts,  it does not mean that they are always right. This just goes to say that most of their instincts are unconsciously based on the details that the brain automatically interprets from the gestures, the movement, the way their dates talk.

Women need to stand firm and say no to bad dates. Tolerating bad dates leads to bad relationships, and bad relationships are useless. One should be in a relationship to be happy, not sad. 

If you are single and ready, be sure to steer away from these types of guys:

THE LEAD

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The  “lead” here does not refer to vocals. It refers to a guy who keeps on leading on women. They make you feel good with all the sweet gestures, and you get smitten. Once you give in, more than a month passes, and he still does not say anything about making it official. Why? Perhaps you’re an easy catch for him. This type of guy would lead you on for a while, and you will be wasting your time hoping that he will finally ask pop the question one day. You know you’re more than that. Move past this guy and find a guy who is man enough to stand beside you.

[su_quote class=”cust-pagination”] “It is far better to be alone than to be in bad company.” — George Washington [/su_quote]

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THE HAIL MARY PASS

Here, we are not referring to spiritual guys. Rather, we are talking about those that date you out of desperation. Have you ever felt that the guy dated you because you are his last resort? The last hope? Ask yourself if the guy you are dating would still want you to be with you even after seeing the prettiest girl. A guy that would choose somebody else over you is not worth your time. A person who loves you for sure would choose you over thousands of perfect women because to him perfection won’t matter; only you would.

THE STORM

This is the guy who would destroy not only you but also all that is in his path. Let’s say you are happy but feel a void because all your friends already have partners. You find this guy who’s about to sweep you away. This guy has a clear history of not being able to handle relationships and leaves his past hanging. What makes you think that you are the point of inflection? The fact is you can’t change a person. However, this does not mean that he cannot change; he can, but only under his own terms. Other women started the way you want to, but his history tells a lot about him. Run, my sister. Run! 

THE TIME TRAVELER

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Do not let history repeat itself. I repeat— Do Not… There is a reason why it did not work in the past. What makes you think this time will be different? This guy likes coming back to you when he’s bored because he knows you will readily take him back. He likes to revisit the past and loves being entertained, and you are such a good entertainer. You could do better than this—find a better man to date.

[su_quote class=”cust-pagination”] “A bad relationship is like standing on broken glass, if you stay, you will keep hurting. If you walk away, you will hurt, but eventually, you will heal.” — Autumn Kohler [/su_quote]

MEET MY PARENTS

Overwhelmed after meeting the parents? Let me tell you that guys have made it their habit to lure you into a trap and make you think that they are serious about you—taking you to their parents. He knows that it pleases you, so he uses it to seduce you into thinking that you’re the one. But the truth is you’re just the one of the many. Although some men could be serious, don’t expect security by meeting the parents.

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NOT INTO YOU

This is pretty much self-explanatory. Dating a guy who’s not that into you is pointless. You will just be wasting your life spent with him and probably miss the right man. Choose a  person who loves you, not one who only puts up with you.