Do Soulmates Exist? Here’s How You Can Find Yours
Love is the most powerful force in the universe. We all know that everyone is capable of loving, and everyone wants their love reciprocated unconditionally. The problem is finding the right person to love; it is not an easy task.
Many people have had their hearts broken from failed relationships. Others had the nerve to cheat on their committed partners. The more you hear and read about these complicated love stories and broken relationships, the more the likelihood of becoming numb for love. It is as if love is nothing but a fairy tale.
However, before you give up on love, we are here to remind you that true love still exists. You just have to be careful when searching for the right person. In this post, we give you some tips on how to find that one true love.
[su_quote class=”cust-pagination”] “Love can only be found through the act of loving.” ― Paulo Coelho [/su_quote]
Stop Playing the Comparison Game
If you pay too much attention to other people’s love lives, you might end up shutting the door to your heart to avoid getting hurt. True, it is good to learn a few lessons from the people around you, but don’t be quick at making conclusions—you might end up stereotyping, thinking that no one is worthy of your love, which is wrong. Every person is unique, and your love story does not have to be exactly as others’.
Stop Blaming Yourself
Many single people nowadays tend to blame themselves for their status. They think that something is wrong, so nobody is interested in them. Others who have been in broken relationships also blame themselves for the breakup. A failed relationship should not lower your self-esteem or discourage you from moving on.
If you think your partner called it over because they could not handle you, that is their problem, not yours. No matter how weird you deem yourself, you are ok, and that person did not deserve you.
Find a person who wants you, not one who needs you
I love you because I need you.
I need you because I love you.
Which phrase sounds better and more sincere? It’s the latter, right? Some people want to use you, and they will use love as an excuse to get what they want. In this case, never commit to a relationship with them. No one deserves to beg for love. Wait for the right person.
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