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Traits To Look For In A Good Mentor


You might seem to think that you know it all. However, there are still many things to learn and discover in this world. Just because you’ are a professional does not mean that you already understand everything. There’s still so much to learn. You need an expert or an adviser to help you deal with these stuff in order to climb your ladder in your profession. Therefore, we recommend that you hire a mentor to help you with this task. 

However, we understand that you might be hesitant to hire a mentor because you’re not sure whether they possess the necessary skills necessary to help you boost up your professional and personal life. Furthermore, you may be unsure whether the mentor is compatible with your personality and goals in life. For all we know, you might not be on the same pages at all. How can you ensure that you choose the best mentor suited for you? Read on! 

A Good Mentor Should Share Your Personal Values

The first thing you need to look out for when seeking a mentor is to determine whether you share the same values. This means that you and your mentor should have the same principles in life. For example, if your principle is to prioritize your family above all things, then you should choose a mentor who does exactly that.

Your mentor should be able to arrange your time and goals in life. He should not jeopardize your weekends so that you have some quality time with your family. Hiring a hard-driving, lean-in mentor who wants you to work and push you past your limits isn’t going to do you any good.

A good mentor is willing to teach and offer advice to others.

The best mentor out there should be approachable and calm when you seek his or her advice. They should be willing to have a heart-to-heart talk with you about your personal goals and needs in life. Their dedication, commitment, and willingness to listen is what you need to figure out your next step in your career. They’re also not afraid to tell you about the hard truths and harsh realities of life because they don’t want you to fail or make a mistake.

The Best Mentor Never Stops Learning

Just like you,  your mentor is not perfect. There’s always room for improvement. Therefore, your mentor should also have the initiative to learn more and expand their knowledge. Like you, they should also be willing to learn new things. Just because they’re your mentor doesn’t mean they’re better than you.

You need to realize that the both of you are stepping on a learning curve. You can determine this by looking if they have some invitations to speak at conferences or writing papers.

Like you, they are also pursuing their own goals and there can be many things to learn from their own stories and struggles. They should also be able to answer your questions especially when it pertains to their endeavors. You can test this by asking about the blogs or books they’ve read and checked out those sources. If they don’t have good answers, they might not be the best mentors for you.

A Perfect Mentor is Both a Coach and a Cheerleader

A good mentor should be able to guide you through every step of the way. They are not there to command you to do things. A good mentoring process should be able to nurture and nourish you into accomplishing your goals in order to become the best version of yourself. They should always support you in all your dreams and goals.

A mentor will never bring you down or discourage you from achieving your dreams. They need to be able to give you firm advice on what you need to do, to push you beyond your comfort zone, to encourage you to do things you might not yet feel ready to do, and to cheer on your successes as if they were their own.


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